airplanes in the sky

                This morning as I was walking to school, I noticed something very strange.  It had been awhile since I’d seen one, and I could hardly believe that I knew exactly what it was.  It seemed like it came from a completely different lifetime. 

                It was an airplane.

                It’s hard to imagine that almost a year ago, I got on what would become one of the most important plane rides of my life.  I remember small, unimportant things about that trip… sitting on the ground at JFK at 4am with our overloaded bags…the mean waitress in Philadelphia at what would be my last breakfast in America…the “toiletry pack” that the stewardess gave me on the plane, with dark green socks and a tube of toothpaste…all of the African-looking souvenirs at the Jo’burg airport….wondering if I could fill my water bottle from the sink…

                I used to love riding in airplanes.  Absolutely loved it.  An airport meant adventure.  It meant that you were going somewhere new and exciting.  You were embarking on a journey so great that it took an entire airplane ride to get there!  The door closes in one place, and when it opens again upon arrival, you’re met with entirely different circumstances: sometimes a blast of heavy, damp humidity, sometimes snow flurries creeping through the cracks along the jet way.  Sometimes the airport has signs that are in a completely different language.

                And the entire experience of riding on an airplane is such a treat!  I love beverage service.  I really love when a meal is included.  I don’t love the food, but I love how neat and organized it all is.  Everything is packaged in its own little compartment, and the butter is in a little box on the side, and when you’re finished you wipe up with a little napkin from a wrapper.  There is nothing better than a clean airplane, a friendly and timely crew, and decent food and beverage service. 

                How superfluous it all seems when I look up at this airplane in the sky while I wander down my rocky dirt road on the way to school.  I can’t believe I was ever so lucky as to be able to ride in an airplane.  I can’t believe I ever complained about slow service or unpleasant food.  When I tell my students and colleagues that I arrived in Lesotho on an airplane, they are awestruck.  They just assume that you travel everywhere in a car.  (When I tell them that an ocean separates Africa and America, they respond with “well why not use a boat?”) 

                Every day I am here, I am reminded of the things we take for granted in America.  Things you wouldn’t even notice you have until one day, they are gone.  Hot water from a faucet.  Water, period.  A flushing toilet.  A light bulb.  An unlimited supply of electricity.  Cold food and drinks.  Ice cubes. 

                I might complain about how “rough” it is here sometimes, but I’m so thankful for the humbleness it’s taught me.  Lots of people here are suffering, but they’re not complaining.  They’re usually singing (or getting drunk). 

Being unhappy or happy in a tough situation is a choice.  If you’ve exhausted all other alternatives, why not just settle for contentment…at least for the time being?  It’s a lot easier to live with than being frustrated all of the time.  I’ve dealt with plenty of frustrations—slow, crowded taxis, people making fun of me in a foreign language, awkward and rude cultural clashes—but getting upset over them only ruins my day and gives me high blood pressure.  I’m slowly learning to settle down and let things happen as they may.  And for the time being, I might even start to sing a little tune.  (Or get drunk).